Grave Care & Headstone Cleaning in Connecticut

The "Green Monster" (Moss and Lichen)

Connecticut is damp. Old oaks block the sun in many cemeteries. The stone stays wet. In this climate, that means algae and moss take over immediately.

You see thick mats of growth on the granite. It destroys the surface. The roots burrow into the pores and hold water like a sponge. Ice hits that water in January and pops the stone open. Families looking for grave site cleaning services often grab putty knives to scrape it off. That scars the stone. We use a biological cleaner instead. It kills the spores down to the root system. The growth dies and washes away. This cleans the stone without forcing us to scrub the polish off.

Historic Brownstone Delamination

Our oldest cemeteries are full of Portland Brownstone. It is a soft, sedimentary rock quarried right here in the state. It looks beautiful, but it fails over time.

Water gets inside the stone layers. When it freezes, the pressure pops the face of the stone right off. We call it delamination. You see layers of the marker lying in the grass like peeled bark. You cannot power wash this stone; it will disintegrate into sand. We treat it with a stone consolidant. This liquid soaks deep into the sand grains and hardens. It glues the layers back together and stops the stone from turning to dust.

Frost Heaves and Tilting

The ground here doesn't stay put. Frost heaves are brutal in New England. The dirt freezes and shoves the monument upward. When it thaws, the stone drops, but never back to level.

This movement throws monuments off balance. A heavy stone starts to lean. Eventually, the internal pins snap and it falls. We provide comprehensive grave stone cleaning services that include leveling. We don't just push it back up. We dig out the foundation. We replace the dirt with deep, angular gravel. Gravel drains the water away so the frost can't push the stone around anymore. It keeps the marker straight through the winter.

Leaf Tannin Stains

In the fall, wet leaves pile up on the flat markers. They sit there for months under the snow. Rotting leaves release tannins.

It leaves a dark brown shadow on the marker. It looks like an old coffee stain. You can scrub with soap all day, but that dye is deep inside the rock grain. We use a specialized poultice. It draws the brown stain out of the granite pores like a magnet. We clear the debris and clean the stone so the inscription stands out again.

"Sugaring" on White Marble

Many Civil War era stones in Connecticut are white marble. Acid rain and industrial pollution attack this stone chemically.

The polish dissolves. The surface gets rough and feels like sandpaper. We call this "sugaring." If you scrub this too hard, you rub the name right off the stone. We clean these very gently. We use a soft biocide to remove the black mold without scrubbing. Then we apply a consolidant to strengthen the sugary surface so it stops eroding.

Tree Sap and Pitch

Maples and pines drop sticky sap all year. It lands on the headstones and hardens in the sun.

Dirt sticks to the fresh sap. It turns into black, tar-like spots. Scraping it scratches the stone. We use a solvent that melts the resin. We wipe it away by hand. It takes elbow grease, but it gets the black gunk off without harming the memorial.

Comprehensive Grave Care Services Included:

  • Headstone Cleaning Service Headstones are gently cleaned and restored using safe, eco-friendly products. We remove dirt, moss, and stains while preserving marble, granite, and bronze. Joints are sealed, chips and cracks repaired.
  • Gentle Lettering Restoration We repaint or re-engrave faded inscriptions, ensuring every name and message remains clear and dignified.
  • Cemetery Plot Maintenance We inspect and maintain the entire grave site, keeping it level, tidy, and safe. Small cracks or discoloration are fixed before they become problems.
  • Photo & Condition Reports After each visit, you receive a detailed photo and report so you can see the results — no matter where you are.
  • Dedicated Care Manager A personal care manager will handle everything — from scheduling and special requests to service updates and reports.
  • $2M Liability Protection Your site is protected by a $2M insurance policy covering accidental damage during service.

Types of Headstones We Clean & Restore:

  • Flush Marker (Granite or Bronze) We specialize in trimming overgrowth and cleaning flat granite or bronze markers. Includes safe removal of oxidation and polishing to restore the original shine.
  • Bevel/Hickey Marker Gentle cleaning for sloped markers susceptible to rain spots and moss. We ensure the inscription remains legible and the base stays clean from mud splash.
  • Slant Monument Expert care for angled monuments. We focus on removing biological growth from the face and cleaning the rough-cut rock sides (nosing) without causing erosion.
  • Upright Monument Full-service cleaning for traditional vertical headstones. Includes stability checks, cleaning of the die and base, and delicate restoration of deep inscriptions.
  • Ledger Marker Complete surface cleaning for full-grave ledger stones. We remove large-scale debris, treat lichen buildup, and prevent weather-related cracking on the large surface.
  • Custom or Multi-Plot Memorials Tailored maintenance for statues, obelisks, and family plots. We use specialized soft-bristle techniques to protect intricate carvings and delicate stone features.

Frequently Asked Questions

Trust & Quality Do you guarantee the work?
We are happy to address any issues that you see in the photo report that is sent to you after each job, or if you visit the gravesite personally, free of charge. The ongoing warranty is valid while your subscription plan is active. After a one-time cleaning/restoration, the warranty period is 14 days.
Services & Plans I’m not sure about the monument’s condition.
We’ll perform an initial inspection and send you photos with a suggested plan.
Location & Access The cemetery doesn’t allow outside workers.
Cemeteries that accept paid maintenance are required to allow licensed contractors. We’ll handle access permissions for you.
Why Grave Care Matters Can I clean the monument myself?
You can, but be careful. Many household cleaners damage stone. We use pH-balanced, professional products that are safe for marble, granite, and bronze.
You can gently clean a headstone using a soft cloth or sponge and mild dish soap mixed with water. Avoid using harsh household cleaners, bleach, vinegar, or power washing, as these can permanently damage the stone’s surface or lettering.
For best results and long-term preservation, we recommend leaving cleaning to our professionally trained team, who use stone-safe solutions and techniques tailored to each material type.
Payments & Subscriptions What happens if payment fails?
We’ll notify you and retry within a few days.
App & Support Can I chat with someone directly?
Yes, you can message your Care Manager in the app, or use our contact details listed below if you prefer to reach us directly.
Special Requests Can you prepare the grave for a memorial date?
Yes, just tell your Care Manager the date in advance. We will try our best to make everything possible.