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Grave Care & Headstone Cleaning in Missouri

The Red Clay Problem

Missouri red clay is a headache. It holds water. In the winter, that wet clay freezes and pushes up hard. In the summer, it bakes dry and shrinks back from the concrete.

This push-and-pull snaps foundations. We see headstones leaning at bad angles or sinking into the mud. You can't just prop them up. For proper tombstone repair and restoration, we dig out that unstable clay. We replace it with a deep bed of compacted gravel. This drains the water away so the ground stays solid under the stone instead of shifting with the seasons.

Carthage "Marble" Decay

You see Carthage stone everywhere here. People call it "marble" because it takes a shine, but it is actually hard limestone. It is porous. It drinks up moisture and holds onto exhaust fumes.

The surface gets rough and sugary. If you rub your hand on it, white dust comes off. A pressure washer will destroy this stone. It blows the lettering right off. We treat Carthage stone gently. We use soft nylon brushes and a consolidant that soaks in and hardens the surface. We stop the crumbling so the inscription stays legible.

Humidity and Black Algae

Our summers are hot and sticky. That humidity feeds biological growth. We deal with a lot of black algae (cyanobacteria) that streaks down the face of the monuments.

It looks like soot, but it's alive. It digs into the stone pores. Scrubbing it just spreads the spores. We use a biological cleaner that kills the algae at the root. We spray it on and let it work. The black streaks turn orange, then disappear. The stone gets clean without us having to scrub the face raw.

Oak Tannin Stains

We have huge Oak and Hickory trees in our cemeteries. They make a mess. Wet leaves pile up on the markers and rot. They leak tannins onto the stone.

This leaves a dark brown smear that soaks right into the rock pores. Soap won't touch it. We use a specialized poultice for headstone cleaning services. We apply the paste to the stained area. It draws the brown oil out of the rock and into the paste. We wash it off, and the natural color returns.

Missouri Red Granite

Down in the Elephant Rocks area and beyond, we use a lot of local Missouri Red granite. It is bulletproof stuff, but the rough, natural edges catch lichen and dirt.

Lichen anchors itself in those jagged cracks. If you try to scrape it dry, you'll chip the crystals. We use a biocide to soften the growth first. Once the lichen is dead and loose, we rinse it away. It reveals that deep red color that has been hidden under gray crust for decades.

City Soot in St. Louis and KC

In the cities, we deal with a century of industrial exhaust. That carbon buildup reacts with limestone to create a black, gypsum crust. It looks like a hard scab on the stone.

You cannot chip this off. If you do, the stone comes with it. We use chemical degreasers and careful water misting. We slowly dissolve the black crust. It takes patience, but we can get down to the original stone surface without losing the carved details.

Freeze-Thaw Spalling

Missouri winters are wet. The stone gets saturated. When the temperature drops at night, that water turns to ice inside the rock. It expands and pushes the face of the stone right off.

We see this on older sandstone. The face flakes off in sheets. We can't glue the stone back, but we can stop the rot. We clean out the loose debris and brush on a sealer. This blocks liquid water from getting in, so the freeze cycle can't do any more damage.

Mower Scuffs

Grass grows fast here in the spring. Commercial mowing crews move fast, and they hit the corner markers. We see chipped granite and green rubber marks on the bases.

We can buff out the rubber marks. For the chips, we check the stability of the stone. As part of our grave site cleaning services, we also edge the grass by hand around the monument. This creates a buffer zone so the mowers don't have to get right up against the stone.

Comprehensive Grave Care Services Included:

  • Headstone Cleaning Service illustration Headstone Cleaning Service Headstones are gently cleaned and restored using safe, eco-friendly products. We remove dirt, moss, and stains while preserving marble, granite, and bronze. Joints are sealed, chips and cracks repaired.
  • Gentle Lettering Restoration illustration Gentle Lettering Restoration We repaint or re-engrave faded inscriptions, ensuring every name and message remains clear and dignified.
  • Cemetery Plot Maintenance illustration Cemetery Plot Maintenance We inspect and maintain the entire grave site, keeping it level, tidy, and safe. Small cracks or discoloration are fixed before they become problems.
  • Photo & Condition Reports illustration Photo & Condition Reports After each visit, you receive a detailed photo and report so you can see the results — no matter where you are.
  • Dedicated Care Manager illustration Dedicated Care Manager A personal care manager will handle everything — from scheduling and special requests to service updates and reports.
  • $2M Liability Protection illustration $2M Liability Protection Your site is protected by a $2M insurance policy covering accidental damage during service.

Types of Headstones We Clean & Restore:

  • Flush Marker (Granite or Bronze) illustration Flush Marker (Granite or Bronze) We specialize in trimming overgrowth and cleaning flat granite or bronze markers. Includes safe removal of oxidation and polishing to restore the original shine.
  • Bevel/Hickey Marker illustration Bevel/Hickey Marker Gentle cleaning for sloped markers susceptible to rain spots and moss. We ensure the inscription remains legible and the base stays clean from mud splash.
  • Slant Monument illustration Slant Monument Expert care for angled monuments. We focus on removing biological growth from the face and cleaning the rough-cut rock sides (nosing) without causing erosion.
  • Upright Monument illustration Upright Monument Full-service cleaning for traditional vertical headstones. Includes stability checks, cleaning of the die and base, and delicate restoration of deep inscriptions.
  • Ledger Marker illustration Ledger Marker Complete surface cleaning for full-grave ledger stones. We remove large-scale debris, treat lichen buildup, and prevent weather-related cracking on the large surface.
  • Custom or Multi-Plot Memorials illustration Custom or Multi-Plot Memorials Tailored maintenance for statues, obelisks, and family plots. We use specialized soft-bristle techniques to protect intricate carvings and delicate stone features.

Real Stories of Memorial Restoration & Care

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Jul 29, 2025
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Frequently Asked Questions

Trust & Quality Who performs the work?
Our local specialists are trained and certified by Tending. We provide them with detailed cleaning protocols and eco-friendly equipment.
Services & Plans How do weather or seasonal conditions influence the service?
We might need to adjust maintenance work based on the weather or time of year to ensure top-notch quality and safety. We'll always let you know beforehand if anything changes!
Location & Access How do you find the grave?
Share as much information as possible (name, birth/death dates, etc.). Our research team uses public databases and mapping tools — including services like BillionGraves, Find a Grave, and MillionGraves — to locate the exact resting place.
Why Grave Care Matters What is Restoration and when do I need it?
Restoration is a one-time deep service that removes years of dirt, restores lettering and color, seals cracks, and revives the original look of the monument. It’s ideal if the stone hasn’t been cleaned for years or has visible damage.
Payments & Subscriptions Do you offer one-time services?
Yes, some of our plans are a one-time service.
App & Support Can I chat with someone directly?
Yes, you can message your Care Manager in the app, or use our contact details listed below if you prefer to reach us directly.
Special Requests Can you prepare the grave for a memorial date?
Yes, just tell your Care Manager the date in advance. We will try our best to make everything possible.