Grave Care & Headstone Cleaning in New Jersey

The Brownstone Problem

New Jersey has some of the oldest cemeteries in the country, and many use brownstone. It gives our graveyards that distinct look, but it is fragile. Over time, brownstone peels like an onion.

Water soaks into the layers and freezes. That expansion pops the face of the stone right off. Once it starts flaking like that, scrubbing just tears more off. A power washer will destroy the stone in seconds. We treat brownstone with extreme caution. For tombstone repair and restoration, we clean the biological growth forcing the layers apart. In severe cases, we use a stone consolidant. It soaks in and hardens the rock, gluing the layers back together from the inside so the decay stops.

Turnpike Soot and Grime

In North Jersey, we deal with heavy traffic and industry. Exhaust from the Turnpike and Parkway creates a greasy, black film on granite.

This isn't normal dirt. It is sticky, oily carbon from the exhaust. Rain doesn't touch it. It bakes onto the polish and kills the shine completely. If you use dish soap, you just smear the grease around. We use industrial-grade degreasers for our headstone cleaning services. They cut through that oily traffic film. We lift the soot without harsh scrubbing, and the natural color of the granite comes back.

Salt Air Corrosion

Down the Shore, the air eats everything. The salt spray settles on monuments and crystallizes. On granite, it leaves a hazy white crust that feels rough to the touch. On bronze markers, it causes rapid green corrosion.

You have to get that salt off, or it will pit the surface. We wash it with a neutralizer to break down those salt crystals. On bronze, we strip the green rot off and seal the metal with hot wax. That barrier stops the sea air from eating the lettering, even right by the beach.

Acid Rain and Marble

We have a history of heavy industry here, which means acid rain. It hits our white marble veterans' markers hard. Acid eats the calcium binder in the stone. The smooth finish turns rough and gritty, just like sugar. We call it "sugaring."

If you scrub that rough surface hard, the name wipes right off. We stick to soft brushes and water. We carefully lift the mildew out of the pores without losing any more stone. We clean it just enough to read the inscription again.

Overgrown Ivy

Ivy looks nice on old churches, but it destroys headstones. It grows rampant in our climate. The vines send tiny rootlets into the mortar joints and the pores of the stone.

Yanking thick ivy off a standing stone is dangerous. It can pull the whole monument down. We cut the vines at the ground first. We wait until they get brittle and let go of the rock. Then we pull them down safely. For cemetery clean up, we also dig out the root ball to stop it from climbing back up next spring.

Pine Barrens Sap

In South Jersey, we have the pines. Pitch pine drops a heavy, sticky sap. In the summer heat, that sap bakes onto the headstones and turns into hard black lumps.

You can't scrape this off without scratching the polish. We use a solvent poultice for cleaning stone gravestones. We apply the paste to the resin spots. It softens the sap back into a liquid, and we wipe it clean. It gets the mess off without damaging the finish underneath.

Moss in the Shade

Jersey is humid. In shaded, tree-lined cemeteries, moss takes over fast. It grows thick on the north side of the markers and in the engraved lettering.

Moss holds water against the stone, which speeds up freeze-thaw damage in winter. We don't just scrape the top off. We use a biological cleaner that soaks into the root system. It kills the growth dead. We let nature do the rest. The rain washes the dead moss away, and the stone dries out clean.

Comprehensive Grave Care Services Included:

  • Headstone Cleaning Service Headstones are gently cleaned and restored using safe, eco-friendly products. We remove dirt, moss, and stains while preserving marble, granite, and bronze. Joints are sealed, chips and cracks repaired.
  • Gentle Lettering Restoration We repaint or re-engrave faded inscriptions, ensuring every name and message remains clear and dignified.
  • Cemetery Plot Maintenance We inspect and maintain the entire grave site, keeping it level, tidy, and safe. Small cracks or discoloration are fixed before they become problems.
  • Photo & Condition Reports After each visit, you receive a detailed photo and report so you can see the results — no matter where you are.
  • Dedicated Care Manager A personal care manager will handle everything — from scheduling and special requests to service updates and reports.
  • $2M Liability Protection Your site is protected by a $2M insurance policy covering accidental damage during service.

Types of Headstones We Clean & Restore:

  • Flush Marker (Granite or Bronze) We specialize in trimming overgrowth and cleaning flat granite or bronze markers. Includes safe removal of oxidation and polishing to restore the original shine.
  • Bevel/Hickey Marker Gentle cleaning for sloped markers susceptible to rain spots and moss. We ensure the inscription remains legible and the base stays clean from mud splash.
  • Slant Monument Expert care for angled monuments. We focus on removing biological growth from the face and cleaning the rough-cut rock sides (nosing) without causing erosion.
  • Upright Monument Full-service cleaning for traditional vertical headstones. Includes stability checks, cleaning of the die and base, and delicate restoration of deep inscriptions.
  • Ledger Marker Complete surface cleaning for full-grave ledger stones. We remove large-scale debris, treat lichen buildup, and prevent weather-related cracking on the large surface.
  • Custom or Multi-Plot Memorials Tailored maintenance for statues, obelisks, and family plots. We use specialized soft-bristle techniques to protect intricate carvings and delicate stone features.

Real Stories of Memorial Restoration & Care

for Cannon Flowers — Tending Client
Jan 13, 2026
“The peace and the amazing work that this company is bringing to our family is beyond anything I could put into words. My grandparents are buried so far away from where I am now and without this company, the guilt of not being able to get to my grandparents grave would haunt me continually. I am truly grateful to have found this company. Their work and respect they provide to us is immeasurable. Absolute gratitude”
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Frequently Asked Questions

Trust & Quality Who performs the work?
Our local specialists are trained and certified by Tending. We provide them with detailed cleaning protocols and eco-friendly equipment.
Services & Plans Can you fix just the letters or cracks?
Yes. Our plans cover that.
Location & Access My cemetery isn’t on your list.
Enter its name manually. We’ll locate it, as long as the cemetery is within the United States. The more details you provide (county, full cemetery name, street address, city, state, plot/section/lot/row, or GPS coordinates), the faster and more accurate our search will be. If you have a link to the cemetery page, a map pin, or a photo of the monument, please include it when placing the order. We will add the county, full cemetery name, postal address, and a map pin to your order so your Care Manager can find the grave.
Why Grave Care Matters How often should a grave be cleaned?
Ideally, light cleaning should be done several times a year, with a deeper restoration every few years depending on the material and local climate. Our Ongoing Care plan is the perfect choice for this.
Payments & Subscriptions Can I cancel anytime?
You can cancel your subscription at any time before the next billing cycle. Services continue until the end of the paid period.
App & Support Can I chat with someone directly?
Yes, you can message your Care Manager in the app, or use our contact details listed below if you prefer to reach us directly.
Special Requests Can you prepare the grave for a memorial date?
Yes, just tell your Care Manager the date in advance. We will try our best to make everything possible.