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Grave Care & Headstone Cleaning in North Dakota

The Deep Freeze

The frost line in North Dakota is no joke. In some winters, the ground freezes six feet down. That puts incredible pressure on anything buried in the soil. Concrete foundations snap like chalk.

We see huge monuments lifted five inches out of the ground or tilted sideways. You can't just push them back down. For tombstone repair and restoration, we have to excavate. We rip out the broken concrete and install a deep, gravel-packed footer. We have to get below that frost line. We give the water a way to drain so the ice can't grab the stone and heave it up next winter.

Red River "Gumbo" Clay

In the east, we deal with the Red River Valley soil. It’s heavy, black gumbo clay. Wet gumbo is slick like grease and heavy as lead. But when the summer heat hits, that clay dries out hard and cracks open.

It pulls right away from the foundation, leaving a gap. This destabilizes headstones. We often find them sinking unevenly. To fix it, we replace that unstable clay around the base with crushed rock. We build a solid pad that doesn't shift every time it rains, keeping the monument level.

Bakken Oil Field Grime

Out west in the Bakken, the air is different. There is a lot of dust from the trucks and soot from the flares. That industrial grime settles on the cemeteries.

This isn't normal dirt. It is greasy. You can't just wipe it off; that just spreads the black film around. It bakes onto the polish and kills the shine completely. We use a heavy-duty degreaser for our headstone cleaning services. It cuts through that oil film. We let it dwell, then rinse it clean. The stone goes from a dull gray back to a deep, shiny black.

The Prairie Wind

There aren't many trees to stop the wind here. It picks up grit from the fields and blasts the cemeteries constantly. Over decades, that wind acts like sandpaper on the soft marble and limestone markers.

We see stones where the edges are rounded off and the names are worn smooth. Pressure washing is the worst thing you can do here. It blows away the little stone that's left. We use soft bristles and stone consolidants. We carefully pick the dirt out of the engraving to make the name pop. Then we apply a consolidant. It toughens the stone up against the wind.

Flooding and Water Lines

When the Red River swells in the spring, it puts the lower cemeteries underwater. When that water finally recedes, it leaves a dirty brown line across the monuments. That river mud stains deep into the pores.

Scrubbing with soap usually doesn't touch it. The silt is too fine. We use a specialized poultice that draws the mud out. We apply the paste over the stain and cover it. As it dries, it pulls the brown river muck out of the stone. We hose it down, and that stubborn brown line finally lifts out.

Lichen on Rough Granite

Granite handles our brutal weather better than marble, but those jagged "rock pitch" edges are a problem. The rough texture creates a perfect hideout for lichen. It digs in deep.

Wire brushes damage the stone. We use a biological solution. We soak the lichen, and it kills the root system. Over a week or two, the dead growth releases its grip and falls off. We get the stone clean without having to take a wire brush to it and chip those granite crystals.

Agricultural "Snirt"

We deal with "snirt" every winter. That dirty snow blows off the plowed fields and piles up on the markers. When it melts, it leaves a nasty scum of mud and fertilizer behind.

This stuff bakes onto the stone in the summer sun. It creates a hard, gray haze. We use plenty of water and soft scrapers to lift that crust. As part of our grave site cleaning services, we remove that seasonal buildup so the polish can shine again.

Sugar Beet Dust

During beet harvest, the trucks kick up a unique kind of dust. It is sticky. It lands on the markers and turns into a gluey mess when the morning dew hits it.

If you leave it, it attracts mold. We use a gentle detergent to break down that organic binder. We wash the sticky film away. For cleaning stone gravestones, we ensure all that sugar residue is gone so the stone stays clean longer.

Comprehensive Grave Care Services Included:

  • Headstone Cleaning Service illustration Headstone Cleaning Service Headstones are gently cleaned and restored using safe, eco-friendly products. We remove dirt, moss, and stains while preserving marble, granite, and bronze. Joints are sealed, chips and cracks repaired.
  • Gentle Lettering Restoration illustration Gentle Lettering Restoration We repaint or re-engrave faded inscriptions, ensuring every name and message remains clear and dignified.
  • Cemetery Plot Maintenance illustration Cemetery Plot Maintenance We inspect and maintain the entire grave site, keeping it level, tidy, and safe. Small cracks or discoloration are fixed before they become problems.
  • Photo & Condition Reports illustration Photo & Condition Reports After each visit, you receive a detailed photo and report so you can see the results — no matter where you are.
  • Dedicated Care Manager illustration Dedicated Care Manager A personal care manager will handle everything — from scheduling and special requests to service updates and reports.
  • $2M Liability Protection illustration $2M Liability Protection Your site is protected by a $2M insurance policy covering accidental damage during service.

Types of Headstones We Clean & Restore:

  • Flush Marker (Granite or Bronze) illustration Flush Marker (Granite or Bronze) We specialize in trimming overgrowth and cleaning flat granite or bronze markers. Includes safe removal of oxidation and polishing to restore the original shine.
  • Bevel/Hickey Marker illustration Bevel/Hickey Marker Gentle cleaning for sloped markers susceptible to rain spots and moss. We ensure the inscription remains legible and the base stays clean from mud splash.
  • Slant Monument illustration Slant Monument Expert care for angled monuments. We focus on removing biological growth from the face and cleaning the rough-cut rock sides (nosing) without causing erosion.
  • Upright Monument illustration Upright Monument Full-service cleaning for traditional vertical headstones. Includes stability checks, cleaning of the die and base, and delicate restoration of deep inscriptions.
  • Ledger Marker illustration Ledger Marker Complete surface cleaning for full-grave ledger stones. We remove large-scale debris, treat lichen buildup, and prevent weather-related cracking on the large surface.
  • Custom or Multi-Plot Memorials illustration Custom or Multi-Plot Memorials Tailored maintenance for statues, obelisks, and family plots. We use specialized soft-bristle techniques to protect intricate carvings and delicate stone features.

Real Stories of Memorial Restoration & Care

Nancy — Tending Client
Nov 8, 2025
“Tending Memorial dues amazing work. They take pride in their work. They recently restored my Mom and Dad’s headstone that had not been done for over 32 years and it looks amazing. Even other people have seen it at the cemetery and are asking who did it. They also are reasonable and pleasant to work with. I work with Dachi Reed and he is amazing. I would proudly recommend Tending Memorial Restoration to anyone to restore your family or loved ones headstone.”
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Frequently Asked Questions

Trust & Quality Do you guarantee the work?
We are happy to address any issues that you see in the photo report that is sent to you after each job, or if you visit the gravesite personally, free of charge. The ongoing warranty is valid while your subscription plan is active. After a one-time cleaning/restoration, the warranty period is 14 days.
Services & Plans How do weather or seasonal conditions influence the service?
We might need to adjust maintenance work based on the weather or time of year to ensure top-notch quality and safety. We'll always let you know beforehand if anything changes!
Location & Access How do you find the grave?
Share as much information as possible (name, birth/death dates, etc.). Our research team uses public databases and mapping tools — including services like BillionGraves, Find a Grave, and MillionGraves — to locate the exact resting place.
Why Grave Care Matters What is Restoration and when do I need it?
Restoration is a one-time deep service that removes years of dirt, restores lettering and color, seals cracks, and revives the original look of the monument. It’s ideal if the stone hasn’t been cleaned for years or has visible damage.
Payments & Subscriptions Do you offer one-time services?
Yes, some of our plans are a one-time service.
App & Support How do I log in if I paid on the website?
Use the same email to sign in, or contact us if you experience any issues.
Special Requests Can you bring flowers?
Not yet, but follow us on social media — we’ll announce when it’s available.