Grave Care & Headstone Cleaning in South Dakota

The Wind and the Grit

Out here on the plains, there is nothing to block the wind. It picks up grit from the fields and scours the cemeteries day in and day out. That constant friction wears down the stone faces.

We see old marble markers that are nearly bald. The lettering is just a faint shadow. If you hit that with a pressure washer, you lose the name forever. We treat wind-worn stone gently. We clean the dirt out of the grooves so you can read the name again. Then we seal the surface. It helps the stone fight back against that constant sandblasting.

Lichen on Milbank Granite

You see Milbank granite everywhere—it's that deep mahogany stone from up north. It is incredibly hard stuff. But most of the older monuments have "rock pitch" edges—that rough, natural look.

Lichen loves those rough edges. It digs its roots into the uneven surface and covers the stone in gray and orange crust. You can't scrape it off without chipping the rock. We use a biological cleaner that kills the lichen. It takes a few days to work. The lichen dries up, releases its grip, and then we wash it away. The granite looks brand new underneath.

Sioux Quartzite Restoration

In the eastern part of the state, you see a lot of Sioux Quartzite. It is that distinctive pink stone. It is harder than granite, but it has a weakness. It tends to grow a very stubborn black algae in the pores.

Because the stone is so hard, people think they can blast it clean. That is a mistake. The algae is deep in the rock. We use a slow-acting biocide for our headstone cleaning services. It soaks deep into the quartzite and lifts the black staining out from the inside. It brings that pink color back without damaging the stone's natural face.

Bison and Cattle Damage

In the Black Hills and rural ranch plots, fences don't always keep the animals out. A loose cow or a bison bull likes to use headstones as scratching posts. They push hard.

We find heavy monuments tipped over or twisted on their bases. We check for chips and structural cracks. When we do tombstone repair and restoration here, we don't just set the stone back up. We reinforce the base. We lock that tablet down tight. If a bull bison decides to scratch his itch on it, that stone shouldn't budge.

Pine Sap in the Hills

The Black Hills are full of Ponderosa pine. They drop sap all summer long. The sun hits that sap and bakes it into a hard amber glaze on the monuments.

It doesn't scrape off. If you try, you scratch the polish. We use a solvent poultice. We pack it onto the sticky spots. The poultice turns that hard resin into goo, and we wipe it clean. We also get those needles out of there. If they pile up, they act like an acid sponge eating away at the base.

Clay Soil Heaving

Gumbo clay in the river valleys is brutal on foundations. It acts like hydraulic fluid. It absorbs rain and pushes the ground up, then dries out and pulls away. The ground never stops shifting.

That movement snaps concrete footers. We fix a lot of leaning stones by digging out the bad foundation. We replace that shifting clay with a deep pocket of gravel. This gives the stone a stable place to sit that drains water away. If the ground under the footer stays dry, the frost won't heave it out of level.

Farm Dust Buildup

Agriculture is everything here. But during harvest, the air is thick with dust. That dirt settles on the markers and mixes with rain. It creates a mud paste that dries like cement.

It fills in the lettering and dulls the polish. Over years, it creates a layer of grime that hides the stone's color. We use gentle, non-ionic soaps to lift that agricultural film. We flush the letters clean with water and soft picks. As part of our grave site cleaning services, we get that caked-on mud off so the stone shines again.

Irrigation Deposits

In the summer, cemeteries water the grass to keep it green. Our well water is hard. It sprays the stones and leaves heavy white calcium lines across the names.

It bonds tight to the granite. A brush won't touch it. We use a professional wash for cleaning stone gravestones that dissolves the calcium chemically. We rinse it thoroughly, and the inscription becomes clear again.

Comprehensive Grave Care Services Included:

  • Headstone Cleaning Service Headstones are gently cleaned and restored using safe, eco-friendly products. We remove dirt, moss, and stains while preserving marble, granite, and bronze. Joints are sealed, chips and cracks repaired.
  • Gentle Lettering Restoration We repaint or re-engrave faded inscriptions, ensuring every name and message remains clear and dignified.
  • Cemetery Plot Maintenance We inspect and maintain the entire grave site, keeping it level, tidy, and safe. Small cracks or discoloration are fixed before they become problems.
  • Photo & Condition Reports After each visit, you receive a detailed photo and report so you can see the results — no matter where you are.
  • Dedicated Care Manager A personal care manager will handle everything — from scheduling and special requests to service updates and reports.
  • $2M Liability Protection Your site is protected by a $2M insurance policy covering accidental damage during service.

Types of Headstones We Clean & Restore:

  • Flush Marker (Granite or Bronze) We specialize in trimming overgrowth and cleaning flat granite or bronze markers. Includes safe removal of oxidation and polishing to restore the original shine.
  • Bevel/Hickey Marker Gentle cleaning for sloped markers susceptible to rain spots and moss. We ensure the inscription remains legible and the base stays clean from mud splash.
  • Slant Monument Expert care for angled monuments. We focus on removing biological growth from the face and cleaning the rough-cut rock sides (nosing) without causing erosion.
  • Upright Monument Full-service cleaning for traditional vertical headstones. Includes stability checks, cleaning of the die and base, and delicate restoration of deep inscriptions.
  • Ledger Marker Complete surface cleaning for full-grave ledger stones. We remove large-scale debris, treat lichen buildup, and prevent weather-related cracking on the large surface.
  • Custom or Multi-Plot Memorials Tailored maintenance for statues, obelisks, and family plots. We use specialized soft-bristle techniques to protect intricate carvings and delicate stone features.

Real Stories of Memorial Restoration & Care

Nancy — Tending Client
Nov 8, 2025
“Tending Memorial dues amazing work. They take pride in their work. They recently restored my Mom and Dad’s headstone that had not been done for over 32 years and it looks amazing. Even other people have seen it at the cemetery and are asking who did it. They also are reasonable and pleasant to work with. I work with Dachi Reed and he is amazing. I would proudly recommend Tending Memorial Restoration to anyone to restore your family or loved ones headstone.”
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Frequently Asked Questions

Trust & Quality How do I know the work was really done?
We send before-and-after photo reports after each visit, visible in your app and email.
Services & Plans How do weather or seasonal conditions influence the service?
We might need to adjust maintenance work based on the weather or time of year to ensure top-notch quality and safety. We'll always let you know beforehand if anything changes!
Location & Access How do you find the grave?
Share as much information as possible (name, birth/death dates, etc.). Our research team uses public databases and mapping tools — including services like BillionGraves, Find a Grave, and MillionGraves — to locate the exact resting place.
Why Grave Care Matters What is Restoration and when do I need it?
Restoration is a one-time deep service that removes years of dirt, restores lettering and color, seals cracks, and revives the original look of the monument. It’s ideal if the stone hasn’t been cleaned for years or has visible damage.
Payments & Subscriptions Do you offer one-time services?
Yes, some of our plans are a one-time service.
App & Support How do I log in if I paid on the website?
Use the same email to sign in, or contact us if you experience any issues.
Special Requests Can you bring flowers?
Not yet, but follow us on social media — we’ll announce when it’s available.