Permian Red Dirt Stains

Oklahoma red dirt is notorious. It isn't just mud; it is iron dye. Rain splashes this red slush onto the bottom of the monuments constantly.

The stone drinks up the muddy water. It leaves a hard, orange ring that looks exactly like rust. You cannot scrub this out. We see families try to clean it with bleach. That destroys the stone. Bleach reacts with the iron and locks the stain into the granite pores forever. We use specific chemical surfactants for grave site cleaning services. We dissolve the iron particles chemically. The red washes away, and the natural stone color comes back.

Wind-Blown Grit

The wind here carries grit. It acts like sandpaper on polished monuments 365 days a year.

The face of the stone gets dull. The edges of the name and dates get fuzzy and hard to read. You cannot re-polish a stone out in the cemetery. But we can stop the damage. During cleaning stone gravestones, we apply a breathable stone sealer. It puts a barrier between the wind and the rock. It keeps the inscription sharp longer.

Ice Storm Splitting

We get bad ice storms. Rain fills up tiny hairline cracks in the granite during the day.

Overnight freezes act like a wedge. The ice pops the face of the stone right off. We call it spalling. We see huge chunks of granite lying on the ground after a hard winter. We inspect for these cracks at every visit. We fill and seal them to keep the water out before the stone breaks.

Soft Limestone Rot

Eastern Oklahoma has many older markers made of native limestone. This stone is soft. It acts like a sponge for humidity.

Black algae loves this stone. It grows deep into the grain and turns the marker completely black. If you hit this with a pressure washer, you will blow the lettering off. The stone is too weak for high pressure. We use a soak method for headstone cleaning services near me. We kill the algae root with biocides. The dead black gunk rinses off with a garden hose, saving the stone surface.

Impacted Storm Mud

Tornado season makes a mess of the cemeteries. High winds drive mud, grass, and tree sap deep into the engraved letters.

The sun bakes this mix until it is hard as rock. You can't read the dates. Digging it out with a screwdriver scratches the polish. We use a hydration technique. We keep the mud wet until it softens up. Then we flush it out gently. It clears the lettering without damaging the finish.

Sandbur Control

Field sandburs (sticker burrs) are a plague in rural plots. They take over the grass. You can't kneel down to tend the grave without getting stuck.

Mowing doesn't stop them. We treat the ground with pre-emergent inhibitors during cemetery plot maintenance. We kill the seeds before they sprout. It keeps the plot safe for family visits.

Clay Soil Heave

Our clay soil moves a lot. Hot summers dry it out, and it shrinks away from the concrete. Wet springs make it swell up.

This movement snaps foundations. We find headstones leaning or sinking into the mud. Dump-truck dirt fills don't work; the clay just eats it. We dig out the bad soil completely. We pack in angular gravel. This creates a stable bed that doesn't swell, keeping the monument level.

Routine Cemetery Site Care in Oklahoma

  • Complete Grave Marker Care Whether it is marble, granite, or bronze, we remove environmental staining and organic debris. We also check and seal any small cracks to prevent water damage.
  • Inscription Recovery We remove the moss and dirt filling the letters, then re-apply pigment where needed to ensure the memorial tells its story clearly.
  • Full Site Upkeep Beyond the stone, we care for the immediate area. We remove debris, trim encroaching grass, and ensure the plot looks attended to and respected.
  • Digital Service Logs Transparency is key. Every cleaning session comes with a full digital report and updated photos of the monument's condition.
  • Personal Support Agent You get a direct line to a real person. Your manager coordinates the local crew, answers your questions, and manages special dates.
  • Professional Liability Safety We treat every grave with respect, backed by a $2,000,000 policy that protects against any accidental damage during restoration.

Types of Headstones We Clean & Restore:

  • Flush Marker (Granite or Bronze) We specialize in trimming overgrowth and cleaning flat granite or bronze markers. Includes safe removal of oxidation and polishing to restore the original shine.
  • Bevel/Hickey Marker Gentle cleaning for sloped markers susceptible to rain spots and moss. We ensure the inscription remains legible and the base stays clean from mud splash.
  • Slant Monument Expert care for angled monuments. We focus on removing biological growth from the face and cleaning the rough-cut rock sides (nosing) without causing erosion.
  • Upright Monument Full-service cleaning for traditional vertical headstones. Includes stability checks, cleaning of the die and base, and delicate restoration of deep inscriptions.
  • Ledger Marker Complete surface cleaning for full-grave ledger stones. We remove large-scale debris, treat lichen buildup, and prevent weather-related cracking on the large surface.
  • Custom or Multi-Plot Memorials Tailored maintenance for statues, obelisks, and family plots. We use specialized soft-bristle techniques to protect intricate carvings and delicate stone features.

Professional Headstone Cleaning Services Across Oklahoma

Our experts provide detailed grave marker restoration in cities all over Oklahoma.

Real Stories of Memorial Restoration & Care

Nancy — Tending Client
Nov 8, 2025
“Tending Memorial dues amazing work. They take pride in their work. They recently restored my Mom and Dad’s headstone that had not been done for over 32 years and it looks amazing. Even other people have seen it at the cemetery and are asking who did it. They also are reasonable and pleasant to work with. I work with Dachi Reed and he is amazing. I would proudly recommend Tending Memorial Restoration to anyone to restore your family or loved ones headstone.”
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Frequently Asked Questions

Trust & Quality Do you guarantee the work?
We are happy to address any issues that you see in the photo report that is sent to you after each job, or if you visit the gravesite personally, free of charge. The ongoing warranty is valid while your subscription plan is active. After a one-time cleaning/restoration, the warranty period is 14 days.
Services & Plans What’s the difference between Restoration and Ongoing Care?
Restoration is a one-time deep cleaning and servicing of the stone. It includes cleaning, repairing chips and cracks, sealing joints, and repainting the lettering. Ongoing Care keeps the monument clean and protected all year long with scheduled visits every 3 months.
Location & Access I live far away — can I still order?
Yes. The cemetery must be located within the United States, but you can place an order from anywhere in the world using any international card accepted by Stripe.
Why Grave Care Matters Why should I take care of a monument?
Regular care keeps the memory alive and prevents natural damage caused by rain, moss, and pollution. It also helps preserve inscriptions and structure for decades, protecting the monument from costly repairs later.
Payments & Subscriptions How do I pay?
Securely online via Stripe.
App & Support How do I log in if I paid on the website?
Use the same email to sign in, or contact us if you experience any issues.
Special Requests Can you bring flowers?
Not yet, but follow us on social media — we’ll announce when it’s available.
Price How much is headstone cleaning in Oklahoma
We offer standardized pricing across all of Oklahoma, whether the cemetery is in a major metro area or a rural county. The cost is based on the marker type (flat, upright, or mausoleum). See the exact price for your location in our online catalog.