Professional headstone cleaning service in New York cemetery

The Freeze-Thaw Hydraulic Press

New York weather destroys stone. It is simple physics. Porous materials like marble absorb meltwater during the day. At night, that water freezes.

Ice expands. It exerts 2,000 PSI of pressure inside the stone's pores. It acts like thousands of tiny wedges splitting the rock from the inside. Over time, the stone cracks and fails. Tending provides professional grave site cleaning services that include applying breathable consolidants. We stop water from getting in, which stops the ice from breaking the stone.

Urban Acid "Scabs"

In the Metro area, the air is full of sulfur from exhaust. Rain washes this onto the monuments. It turns into acid on the stone surface.

It attacks marble immediately. It converts the stone skin into gypsum. This forms a hard, black, "scabby" crust. This crust traps moisture and rots the stone underneath. We use specialized memorial restoration services to chemically dissolve these gypsum scabs without destroying the fragile stone beneath.

Granular Disintegration ("Sugaring")

Acid rain eats the natural glue in older marble. The crystals fall apart. The surface feels like rough sugar or sand. We call this "sugaring."

If you pressure wash this, you will erase the name. You are washing away the stone itself. We use specific cleaning marble tombstones protocols. We use soft bristles and consolidants to glue the grains back together and save the inscription.

Frost Heave

New York ground freezes deep. Ice lenses form underground and push the soil up. This lifts heavy monuments unevenly.

When spring comes, the ice melts and the ground turns to mud. The support vanishes. The monument drops and snaps the foundation. Our headstone cleaning service includes structural checks. We identify markers moving from frost heave and perform the necessary cemetery plot maintenance to relevel the base before it tips over.

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Effective Headstone Cleaning in New York

We were stunned when we saw the restored memorial. Tending’s work exceeded our expectations by far.

— Barbara J., New York

What’s Included in Your Subscription:

  • Quarterly Monument Cleaning illustration Quarterly Monument Cleaning Gentle, professional care to remove dirt, moss, stains, and buildup.
  • Full Gravesite Maintenance illustration Full Gravesite Maintenance We tidy the entire area - trimming grass, removing weeds and debris, and refreshing the plot.
  • Photo Updates After Every Visit illustration Photo Updates After Every Visit Clear before & after pictures sent straight to your email.
  • Damage Inspections & Alerts illustration Damage Inspections & Alerts We check for potential issues and notify you if special restoration is needed.
  • Optional Flower Placements & Seasonal Add-ons illustration Optional Flower Placements & Seasonal Add-ons Easily customize and order through your account at any time.
  • We Locate the Grave illustration We Locate the Grave Tending’s nationwide cemetery database means we’ll quickly find your loved one’s monument, even without a plot number. Receive exact GPS coordinates and clear photos every visit.
  • Personal Care Manager illustration Personal Care Manager Your personal manager will contact you within the next business day to confirm all details.Within 14 days, your monument will be fully restored and cared for.

Frequently Asked Questions

Trust & Quality Do you guarantee the work?
We are happy to address any issues that you see in the photo report that is sent to you after each job, or if you visit the gravesite personally, free of charge. The ongoing warranty is valid while your subscription plan is active. After a one-time cleaning/restoration, the warranty period is 14 days.
Services & Plans How do weather or seasonal conditions influence the service?
We might need to adjust maintenance work based on the weather or time of year to ensure top-notch quality and safety. We'll always let you know beforehand if anything changes!
Location & Access How do you find the grave?
Share as much information as possible (name, birth/death dates, etc.). Our research team uses public databases and mapping tools — including services like BillionGraves, Find a Grave, and MillionGraves — to locate the exact resting place.
Why Grave Care Matters What is Restoration and when do I need it?
Restoration is a one-time deep service that removes years of dirt, restores lettering and color, seals cracks, and revives the original look of the monument. It’s ideal if the stone hasn’t been cleaned for years or has visible damage.
Payments & Subscriptions Do you offer one-time services?
Yes, some of our plans are a one-time service.
App & Support How do I log in if I paid on the website?
Use the same email to sign in, or contact us if you experience any issues.
Special Requests Can you bring flowers?
Not yet, but follow us on social media — we’ll announce when it’s available.